In a given set of numbers N there is one, only one, that is larger than all the others. What is the best way to express this?
My guess:
$\exists x \in N |( x > \forall y \in N \wedge \forall y \in N = x \Rightarrow y = x) $
or:
$\exists ! x \in N | x > \forall y \in N$
Is that correct or do I need to indicate that x is larger than all the elements except itself? For instance:
$\exists ! x \in N | x > \forall y \in N | y \neq x $
Writing $x > \forall y \in N$ is highly non-standard. It might be understood if you clarify elsewhere, or if it's clear from context, but you should probably not expect it. Similarly, using your $\mid$ as a sort of reverse implication outside of set notation is also non-standard.
The standard way to write this would be $$ \exists x \in N(\forall y(x \neq y \to x > y)). $$ Note that $x > y$ already precludes the possibility that there might be another $x'$ which is also greater than all other elements, so you don't need to express uniqueness separately.