(this is simulated data without error variance)
So, I have model:
y = x + gender(categorical variable, effect coded) + interaction(x and gender)
x and gender and interaction were all significant
and the plot y and x and gender.
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But if I see the plot, I really don't get why the interaction is significant. you can see the line is almost parallel.
would anyone help me with this?


I think it is simply because the lines are not plotted correctly. For gender=1, we get the equation
$$\hat y=.99x$$
This is exactly the line that would go through the blue points.
For gender=-1, we would get a different equation which would seem to be the least squares line for the red points.
$$\hat y=3.8+.2x$$
The interaction effect represents the difference in effect of x between the two genders.