I'm studying LeVeque's Finite Difference Methods for Ordinary and Parial Differential Equations. In page 64 he states the formula for the 9-point Laplacian
$$ \nabla_9^2u_{ij}=\frac{1}{6h^2}[4u_{i-1,j}+4u_{i+1,j}+4u_{i,j-1}+4u_{i,j+1}+u_{i-1,j-1}+u_{i-1,j+1}+u_{i+1,j-1}+u_{i+1,j+1}-20u_{ij}] $$
I don't understand how he got to this formula. In previous pages he shows how to get the formula for the 5-point stencil by adding centered finite differences. I tried a similar approach to get the 9-point formula, but had no success.
So, I'm deeply curious to know how to get to this formula by adding centered finite differences or something like that.




The reasoning behind the 9-point stencil follows from the logic that the "diagonal" points offer additional information that can possibly used to construct a better approximation to the derivative.
Instead of the diagonal neighbors, you could also look at the points with an offset of $2h$ to you, also leading to 9-point stencil. This is discussed in this exercise sheet, leading also to a higher order approximation.
In any case, however, you have to get your hands dirty and do the Taylor-Expansion to get the exact coefficients. What you can see for both kinds of $9$-point stencils is the fact that closer points receive more weight what makes intuitively sense.