Apparently $\operatorname{card}(\omega+1)=\omega$. This means that there is an order $<$ on $\omega+1$ such that there is an isomorphism of ordered set $f$, $(\omega+1,<) \cong (\omega,\in)$, but to what does $f$ send $\omega \in \omega+1$?
Edit
Also to show $card(\omega+1)=\omega$ I think I need to show that any ordinal $\alpha$ that is in bijection with $\omega+1$ is such that $\alpha \ge \omega$ no? [I know also that if two ordinals are isomorphic ($\langle \beta, \in \rangle \cong \langle \gamma, \in \rangle$ i.e. isomorphism of ordered set) then $\beta=\gamma$, is this usefull here?.]

If it it only concerns cardinality then a bijection is enough.
If you insist on an order preserving bijection then:
Let $<$ on $\omega+1$ be defined by $\omega<0$ and $n<m$ if $n,m\in\omega$ with $n\in m$.
Then $f$ can be prescribed by: