Lets consider a coupled differential equation-
$\ddot{z} + \omega_{o}^{2}z + 2\beta\dot{z} + \frac{\epsilon}{2m}\theta = 0$
and,
$\ddot{\theta} + \omega_{o}^{2}\theta + 2\gamma\dot{\theta} + \frac{\epsilon}{2I}z = 0$
where, $\omega_{o}^{2}$, $I$, $\beta$, $\gamma$ and, $m$ are constants.
My approach:
Very similar to the undamped version, substituting one of the coordinates into the other, but equations become more messy, like (even when assuming $\gamma=0$) -
$\ddddot{\theta}+2\beta\dddot{\theta}+2\omega_{o}^{2}\ddot{\theta}+2\beta\omega_{o}^{2}\dot{\theta}+(\omega_{o}^{4}-\frac{\epsilon^{2}}{4mI})\theta=0$
Assuming solution, $\theta(t)=Ae^{\alpha t}e^{i\omega t}$, because $\theta$ should decay as there is damping in the system, I get following -
$g(\omega,\alpha)=(\alpha+i\omega)^{4}+2\beta\cdot(\alpha+i\omega)^{3}+2\omega_{o}^{2}\cdot(\alpha+i\omega)^{2}+2\beta\omega_{o}^{2}\cdot(\alpha+i\omega)+(\omega_{o}^{4}-\frac{\epsilon^{2}}{4mI})=0$
this would be satisfied only when,
$Re(g(\omega,\alpha))=0$ & $Im(g(\omega,\alpha))=0$,
I get -
$Re(g(\omega,\alpha))=0\Rightarrow\omega^{4}-(6\alpha^{2}+3\alpha \cdot 2\beta-2\omega_{o}^{2})\cdot\omega^{2}+(\alpha^{4}+2\beta\alpha^{3}-2\omega_{o}^{2}\alpha^{2}+2\beta\omega_{o}^{2}\alpha+\omega_{o}^{4}-\frac{\epsilon^{2}}{4mI})=0$
and,
$Im(g(\omega,\alpha))=0\Rightarrow4\alpha^{3}\omega+6\alpha^{2}\beta\omega-\alpha\cdot(4\omega^{3}+4\omega\omega_{o}^{2})+2\beta\omega_{o}^{2}\omega-2\beta\omega^{3}=0$
Equations are too complicated to solve, although $Re(g(\omega,\alpha))= 0$ can be solved with quadratic formula and I get,
$\omega_{1,2}^{2}=\frac{1}{2}[6\alpha^{2}+6\beta\alpha+2\omega_{o}^{2}\pm\sqrt{32\alpha^{4}+64\alpha^{3}\beta+16\alpha^{3}\omega_{o}^{2}+36\alpha^{2}\beta^{2}+16\alpha \beta\omega_{o}^{2}+\frac{\epsilon^{2}}{4mI}}]$
Now I am stuck, how should I proceed with $Im(g(\omega,\alpha))=0$ to get $\alpha$ in terms of other constants?
Also, how can I apply the method of multiple scales (or Poincare-Lindstedt method) in these equations?
Can $(2\beta\dot{z} + \frac{\epsilon}{2m}\theta)$ and $(2\gamma\dot{\theta} + \frac{\epsilon}{2I}z)$ be considered as perturbations if $\beta$, $\gamma$, $\epsilon$ are small?
$$\begin{cases}\ddot{z} + \omega^{2}z + \frac{\epsilon}{2m}\theta = 0\\ \ddot{\theta} + \omega^{2}\theta + \frac{\epsilon}{2I}z = 0\end{cases}$$ Without approximation (whatever $\epsilon$ is), the system can be solved classically :
$\epsilon\theta =-2m(\ddot{z} + \omega^{2}z)$ that we put into the second equation :
$$-2m(\ddddot{z} + \omega^{2}\ddot z)-2m\omega^2(\ddot{z} + \omega^{2}z) +\frac{\epsilon^2}{2I}z=0$$
$$\ddddot{z} +2\omega^{2}\ddot z +\omega^4z =\frac{\epsilon^2}{4mI}z$$
This is a fourth order linear ODE which can be classically solved.
Nevertheless, if $\epsilon$ is small, you can consider $\frac{\epsilon^2}{4mI}z$ as a perturbation term.
Since it is a single ODE, I suppose that you known how to proceed.
You will obtain the result on the form $\quad z(t)\simeq z_0(t)+\epsilon z_1(t)$.
Then solve $\quad\ddot{\theta} + \omega^{2}\theta + \frac{\epsilon}{2I}z_0 = 0\quad$ on the same manner, in order to obtain $\quad \theta(t)\simeq \theta_0(t)+\epsilon \theta_1(t)$