If $(a,b)=1$, then $\gcd(a^2+b^2,a^3+b^3)\mid (a-b)$
The only way that can help is to find some common factor of $a^2+b^2$ and $a^3+b^3$.
That does not seem obvious enough, so will directly try to divide $a^3+b^3$ by $a^2+b^2$.
This leads to nowhere too.
It seems that need to use the fact that $a,b$ are relatively prime, but am unable to use that.
Let for some suitable integers $x, y$, have $ax +by =1$.
Say $$d=\gcd(a^2+b^2,a^3+b^3)$$ then $d\mid (a+b)(a^2+b^2-ab)$ and $d\mid a^2+b^2$ so, we get:
$$d\mid ab(a+b) = (a+b)(a^2+b^2)- (a+b)(a^2+b^2-ab)$$
Now suppose there is prime $p$ such that $p\mid d$ and $p\mid a$. Then $p\mid a^2$ and so $p\mid b^2 = (a^2+b^2)-a^2$. A contradiction, since $a,b$ are relatively prime. So $a,d$ are relatively prime (and $b,d$ also) and $$d\mid a+b\Longrightarrow d\mid a(a+b)=a^2+ab$$
so $$ d\mid (a^2+ab)- (a^2+b^2)= b(a-b)$$ By Euclid lemma we have $d\mid a-b$.