Let $a_{n+1}=\dfrac{10}{a_n}-3$, $a_1=10$ then find the limit $\lim\limits_{n \to \infty} a_n$
My Try :
$$a_2=-2 \ \ ,a_3=-8 \ \, a_4=-4.25 \ \ a_n <0$$
thus visthe monotone convergence theorem $$\lim\limits_{n \to \infty}=l$$
so: $$l=\dfrac{10}{l}-3 \to l^2+3l=10 \to l=2 , -5 $$
it is right ?

There is no monotone convergency with this sequence $$a_1=10, a_2=-2, a_3=-8, a_4=-4.25, a_5=-5.35295, a_6=-4.86813$$ is not monotone. It oscillates, so different techniques are required.
Let's look at the function $f(x)=\frac{10}{x}-3$, s.t $a_{n+1}=f(a_n)$ and $f'(x)=-\frac{10}{x^2}$
Preliminary. You have spotted a fixed point $x_0=-5$ which is also an attracting fixed point since $\left|f'(x_0)\right|=\frac{2}{5}<1$. So, there is a vicinity of $x_0$ such that if $a_n$ falls into it from some $n$ onwards, then the sequence will be "attracted" to $x_0$. This is good but not enough.
Technical proof, using Banach fixed-point theorem (BFPT). We see that starting from $n=3$, $a_n\in [-10,-4]$, this is true because
$$\color{red}{x \in [-10,-4]} \Rightarrow -10 \leq x \leq -4 \Rightarrow \\ 10 \geq -x \geq 4 \Rightarrow -\frac{1}{4} \leq \frac{1}{x} \leq -\frac{1}{10} \Rightarrow \\ -10<-\frac{11}{2} \leq \frac{10}{x} -3 \leq -4 \Rightarrow \\ \color{red}{f(x) \in [-10,-4]}$$
And applying MVT $$\forall x<y \in [-10,-4], \exists \xi \in (x,y) : \left|f(x)-f(y)\right|=|f'(\xi )||x-y|\leq\left|\frac{10}{16}\right||x-y|$$
Because $\left|\frac{10}{16}\right|<1$, according to BFPT, there is a limit of the sequence $a_n$ on $[-10,-4]$ (obviously unique), so it's $-5$. More theory here.