As stated in the title, suppose $f,g$ are bilinear forms $V \times V \rightarrow T$. Suppose $K: V \times V \rightarrow T$, and $f(a,b) = K(a,b) g(a,b)$.
Does this imply that $K$ is constant? I don't seem to be able to prove this, though intuitively it makes sense - as soon as we multiply a bilinear form by anything non constant, it is no longer a bilinear form.
If it true for the case of e.g. $T = \mathbb{R}$, $V=\mathbb{R}^2$, please provide a rigorous proof.
This question is motivated by a similar step that is used in a cross product identity proof - Coordinate free proof for $a\times (b\times c) = b(a\cdot c) - c(a\cdot b)$ and Do the BAC-CAB identity for triple vector product have some intepretation?
Where it's shown that $a \times (b \times c) = B'(a \cdot c)b + C'(a \cdot b)c$ and we wish to show that $B'$ is constant, i.e. not dependent on either $b$ or $c$. I'd be interested in whether it's a valid step in this case in particular.
Since the condition on $K$ is vacuous at the points where $g(x, y) = 0$, without further assumptions on $K$ the best you should expect is that $K$ is a constant on $U = \{(x, y)\in V \times V \mid g(x, y) \ne 0\}$. Of course if $K$ is a polynomial (or more generally continuous, if say $T = \mathbb{R}$) and $g$ is not the $0$ bilinear form so that $U$ is dense then it follows that $K$ is a constant everywhere.
Consider $x$ such that $y \mapsto g(x, y)$ is not the $0$ function, ie $(x \times V) \cap U \ne \varnothing$. Now define $f_x(y) = f(x, y)$ and $g_x(y) = g(x, y)$. By assumption, $f_x$ vanishes on $\ker g_x \subsetneq V$, so descends to an element of $(V/\ker g_x)^*$. But this vector space is generated by $g_x$, so $f_x = K_x g_x$ for some $K_x \in T$. Comparing, we get that $K(x, y) = K_x$ for each $y$ such that $(x, y) \in U$, so $K$ is constant on $(x \times V) \cap U$. This holds for each $x$ and by a symmetric argument $K$ is also constant on each $(V \times y) \cap U$.
Now it suffices to prove that for any $(x_1, y_1), (x_2, y_2) \in U$, we can always find $y \in V$ such that $(x_1, y), (x_2, y) \in U$, by applying the above to $x_1 \times V$, $V \times y$ and $x_2 \times V$. Consider the linear functionals $g_1 = g_{x_1}$ and $g_2 = g_{x_2}$. By assumption, each is non-zero, and we want to find a point where they both do not vanish, ie we want to show that $W_1 \cup W_2 \ne V$, with $W_i = \ker g_i \subsetneq V$.
This is proved eg here in more generality but the argument applied to this case is as follows. Note that $y_1 \notin W_1$ and $y_2 \notin W_2$. If $y_2 \notin W_1$ then we are done. Otherwise $y_1 + \lambda y_2$ is never in $W_1$ and in $W_2$ for at most one $\lambda \in T$, and since $T$ must have more than one element, we can take $y = y_1 + \lambda y_2$ for any other $\lambda$.