Going through my textbook, I've come across something I don't understand. it says, if $ \lambda a + \mu b = \alpha a + \beta b $ and the non-zero vectors a and b are not parallel, then $ \lambda = \alpha $ and $\mu = \beta$. Perhaps obvious, but to avoid ambiguity the greek letters are constants.
So, the reason I don't understand this is because I don't understand how in earth this even works...
You may know that two vectors are parallel if they are a multiple of one another; that is: (non-zero) vectors $\mathbf{a}$ and $\mathbf{b}$ are parallel if (and only if) there's a number $k \ne 0$ such that $\mathbf{a}=k\mathbf{b}$.
Now, in your case: $$\lambda \mathbf{a} + \mu \mathbf{b} = \alpha \mathbf{a} + \beta \mathbf{b} \iff \left(\lambda-\alpha\right) \mathbf{a} = \left( \beta - \mu \right)\mathbf{b}$$ Hint: the right-hand side now seems to imply that $\mathbf{a}$ and $\mathbf{b}$ are parallel, unless...