Suppose $f$ is Riemann-Stieltjes integrable with respect to $g$. If $g$ is increasing then it is easy to show
$$ \newcommand{\d}[1]{\,\mathrm{d}#1} \bigg| \int_a^bf(x)\d{g(x)} \bigg| \leq \int_a^b|f(x)| \d{g(x)} $$
just using $-|f| \leq f \leq |f|$ and the monotonicity of the integral.
Question: If $g$ has bounded variation but not monotone then the inequality is $$\bigg|\int_a^b f(x)\d{g(x)}\bigg| \leq \int_a^b|f(x)| \d{v_a^x(g)}$$
Here $v_a^x(g)$ is the total variation function. How can this be proved?
\begin{align} \left|\int_{a}^{b}fdg\right| &= \lim_{\|\mathcal{P}\|\rightarrow 0}\left|\sum_{n=1}^{N}f(x_j^*)(g(x_j)-g(x_{j-1}))\right| \\ & \le \lim_{\|\mathcal{P}\|\rightarrow 0}\sum_{n=1}^{N}|f(x_j^*)||g(x_j)-g(x_{j-1})| \\ & \le \lim_{\|\mathcal{P}\|\rightarrow 0}\sum_{n=1}^{N}|f(x_j^*)|v_{x_{j-1}}^{x_j}(g) \\ & = \lim_{\|\mathcal{P}\|\rightarrow 0}\sum_{n=1}^{N}|f(x_j^*)|\{v_a^{x_j}(g)-v_a^{x_{j-1}}(g)\} \\ & = \int_{a}^{b}|f(x)|d_{x}v_{a}^{x}(g). \end{align}