The definition of a Balance Incomplete block design $(v,k,\lambda)$-BIBD can be found here. It is a well known fact (also see the link above) that every two blocks of a symmetric $(v,k,\lambda)$-BIBD have exactly $\lambda$ elements in common. I was wondering if the following is also true:
Guess: If three distinct blocks of a symmetric $(v,k,\lambda)$-BIBD have at least $2$ elements in common, then they have exactly $\lambda$ elements in common.
Does that hold?
It doesn't seem to be true. 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