Let's say $d=\gcd(x, y)$
I realize that $d$ is a common divisor of $x+y$ and $xy$, and their greatest common divisor would be some multiple of $d$, let's say $kd$. So $$\gcd(x+y, xy)-\gcd(x, y)=kd-d=d(k-1)$$ so since $d$ can be any value it depends on whether $k-1$ is always even or odd so that it would make the whole thing even/odd.
That's where I get lost. I don't have a lot of experience on this subject so I might be way off. And sorry if the formatting is bad I'm struggling on mobile.
Anyway, thank you in advance.
Suppose $x$ and $y$ are both even. Then $\gcd(x+y,xy)$ and $\gcd(x,y)$ are both even as well, and the difference of two even numbers is again even.
Now, suppose that at least one of these is odd. Then one of $x+y$ or $xy$ is odd and it follows that $\gcd(x+y,xy)$ and $\gcd(x,y)$ are both odd as well. The difference of two odd numbers is even.
As such, $\gcd(x+y,xy)-\gcd(x,y)$ is always even.