For a norm $\|\cdot\|$ by triangle inequality we have $\|a+b\| \le \|a\| + \|b\|$ and by Cauchy–Schwarz inequality $\|ab\| \le \|a\|\|b\|$, but I am not sure if the following inequality holds always true: $\|a+b\|^2 \le \|a\|^2 + \|b\|^2$.
Thanks for the answers!
Then, let's say $\|a+b\|^2 \lesssim \|a\|^2 + \|b\|^2$, is that true?
If we have an inner product $\langle . | . \rangle$, then: $$ ||a+b||^2 = \langle a+b | a+b \rangle = \langle a | a \rangle +2\langle a | b \rangle + \langle b | b \rangle = ||a||^2+||b||^2+2\langle a | b \rangle $$ Thus your assertion does not hold for say: $a=\alpha b$ with $\alpha>0$.