Okay! Well I know its not a group but for my own sake I'm having trouble explaining why and seeing why it isn't.
$G=\mathbb{Z}$ with $a*b=4$
I believe that it's not a group because Inverse Elements don't exist
i.e.
$a*b=1$ no such $b \in G$ exists that'll, but apparently this isn't a proper explanation.
apparently the real answer is that there does not exist a proper identity, can someone explain why this fails?
The definition of an inverse element depends on the definition of an identity element. We can't assume that that the identity is $1$ in this group. So first we need to check if there exists some $e \in G$ such that for every $g \in G$, we have that $e * g = g = g * e$. And no such $e$ exists. Otherwise, we could take $g = 5$ to obtain: $$ e * 5 = 5 \implies 4 = 5 $$ a contradiction.