Problem. Let $h\in C(\mathbb{R})$ be a continuous function, and let $\Phi:\Omega:=[0,1]^{2}\rightarrow\mathbb{R}^{2}$ be the map defined by \begin{align*} \Phi(x_{1},x_{2}):=\left(x_{1}+h(x_{1}+x_{2}),x_{2}-h(x_{1}+x_{2})\right) \tag{1} \end{align*} What is the (Lebesgue) measure (denoted by $\left|\cdot\right|$) of the set $\Phi(\Omega)$?
Implicit in the problem statement is that $\Phi(\Omega)$ is Lebesgue measurable, but this is obvious as $\Phi$ is the composition of continuous functions, so $\Phi(\Omega)$ is a compact subset of $\mathbb{R}^{2}$.
If we knew that $h$ was $C^{1}$, then the Jacobian of $\Phi$ is \begin{align*} J\Phi(x_{1},x_{2})=\begin{bmatrix} {1+h'(x_{1}+x_{2})} & {h'(x_{1}+x_{2})} \\ {-h'(x_{1}+x_{2})} & {1-h'(x_{1}+x_{2})} \end{bmatrix} \end{align*} which has determinant $1$ everywhere. Whence, \begin{align*} \left|\Phi(\Omega)\right|=\int_{\mathbb{R}^{2}}\chi_{\Phi(\Omega)}(x_{1},x_{2})\mathrm{d}x_{1}\mathrm{d}x_{2}=\int_{\mathbb{R}^{2}}\chi_{\Omega}(x_{1},x_{2})\left|J\Phi(x_{1},x_{2})\right|\mathrm{d}x_{1}\mathrm{d}x_{2}=1 \end{align*}
My thought was to approximate $h$ uniformly in a neighborhood of $[-2,2]$ by a smooth function $g$, so that $\left|h(x_{1}+x_{2)}-g(x_{1}+x_{2})\right|<\epsilon$ for all $(x_{1},x_{2})\in\Omega$, given $\epsilon>0$. Denote the analogue of $\Phi$ with $g$ instead of $h$ by $\Phi_{\epsilon}$. One can verify that
$$\forall x=(x_{1},x_{2})\in\Omega,\quad \left|\Phi(x)-\Phi_{\epsilon}(x)\right|=\sqrt{2}\left|h(x_{1}+x_{2})-g(x_{1}+x_{2})\right|<\sqrt{2}\epsilon$$
So $\Phi(\Omega)\subset U_{\epsilon}:=\left\{y\in\mathbb{R}^{2} : d(y,\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega))<\sqrt{2}\epsilon\right\}$ and $\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega)\subset V_{\epsilon}:=\left\{y\in\mathbb{R}^{2} : d(y,\Phi(\Omega))<\sqrt{2}\epsilon\right\}$.
We obtain that \begin{align*} 1=\left|\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega)\right|\leq\int_{\mathbb{R}^{2}}\chi_{V_{\epsilon}}(x)\mathrm{d}x \end{align*} Since $\Phi(\Omega)$ is compact, in particular closed, $\chi_{V_{\epsilon}}\rightarrow\chi_{\Phi(\Omega)}$ a.e. as $\epsilon\downarrow 0$. From monotone convergence, we obtain that \begin{align*} 1\leq\left|\Phi(\Omega)\right| \tag{2} \end{align*}
My issue is with establishing the reverse inequality. I know that \begin{align*} \left|\Phi(\Omega)\right|\leq\left|U_{\epsilon}\right|=1+\left|\left\{x\in\mathbb{R}^{2}:0<d(x,\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega))<\sqrt{2}\epsilon\right\}\right| \end{align*} But I do not know how to control the measure of set $\left\{x\in\mathbb{R}^{2}: 0<d(x,\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega))<\sqrt{2}\epsilon\right\}$ as $\epsilon\downarrow 0$, as $\Phi(\Omega)\setminus\Phi_{\epsilon}(\Omega)$ is contained in this set for all $\epsilon>0$.
HINT:
$$\Phi^{-1}(y_1, y_2) = (y_1- h(y_1, y_2), y_2 + h(y_1, y_2)\,) $$
Adding some details:
If $\Phi_n \overset{\text{u}}{\to} \Phi$ and $K$ compact then $\mu( \Phi(K)) \ge \limsup_n \mu(\Phi_n(K))$ like you showed with $\epsilon$-neighborhoods. Now take $\Phi_n$ smooth, measure preserving like you showed, and get $\mu(\Phi(K)) \ge \mu(K)$.
Conversely, take $h_n$ smooth converging to $h$. Then $\Phi^{-1}_n \to \Phi^{-1}$. Therefore, we have
$$\mu(K) = \mu (\Phi^{-1}(\Phi(K))) \ge \limsup_n \mu (\Phi_n^{-1}(\Phi(K))$$
However, the smooth $\Phi_n$ preserve the measure so $\mu (\Phi_n^{-1}(\Phi(K)))= \mu( \phi(K))$.
$\bf{Added:}$ What OP used was to approximate $\Phi$ with smooth maps that preserve the area, and then show that $\mu(\Phi(\Omega))\ge \limsup_n \mu(\Phi_n(\Omega))$. This follows from the fact that $\Phi_n(\Omega)\to \Phi(\Omega)$ in the Hausdorff metric and then using the fact that the volume is upper continuous for that metric. However, we do have in general $$\mu(\Phi(\Omega))=\lim_{n\to \infty} \mu(\Phi_n(\Omega))$$
whenever $\Phi_n$ converges to $\Phi$ uniformly on the square $\Omega$. Indeed, for any continous map $\Psi$ defined on the square $\Omega$ the image $\Psi(\Omega)$ contains all the points $y \in \mathbb{R}^2$ whose index relative to the image of the boundary $\Psi(\partial\Omega)$ is not zero.