Let $R=\{(1,1),(2,2),(3,3),(4,4),(2,3),(3,2),(2,4),(4,2),(3,4),(4,3)\}$ be an equivalence relation on $A=\{1,2,3,4\}$. How many elements does $[2]$ have?
My answer: By drawing a graph I can see that $2R2$, $2R3$ and $2R4$. So $[2]=\{2,3,4\}$, which means $|[2]|=3$.
Q1: Am I wrong?
Q2: Other solution methods?
Q3: Also, I'm not sure whether $2 \in [2]$ or not. It should be because $2R2$, since it is an equivalence relation.
Your solution is correct and the class of $[2]$ has three elements as you have suggested.
Over all you may find the partition of $$\{1,2,3,4\}$$ by this relation as $$\{ \{1\}, \{2,3,4\}\}$$
Thus you only have two equivalency classes.