Show that $Y$ does not span $P^2$ and find a basis for the span of $Y$.
I can row reduce the matrix so that the bottom row is all zeros is this enough to prove that it does not span? I find it easy to show that something does span but not to show that it does not span...
The basis I got was $\{ 1 + (1/2)x^2, x + (-1/2)x^2 \}$ is this correct?
Yes, your calculations are correct and the basis for the span of $Y$ is good.
It would have been very helpful if you had your matrix, and its row reduced form written down, so the reader has an easier time to see your complete proof.