I'm reading a very verbose textbook on database design, but I suspect that much of the book could be condensed into a few pages if the authors were not trying to avoid mathematical language.
What is the mathematical definition of a relational database? Stated in a way that a pure mathematician would be satisfied with.

I will take your question as a reference request. Your first stop can be https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relational_model and the books by Codd and Date cited there.