For the matrix: $$A=\begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & 0 & 0\\ x & 0 & 0 & 0\\ 0 & y & 0 & 0\\ 0 & 0 & z & 0\\ \end{pmatrix}$$
I need to find values fro x,y,z that allow the matrix to be diagonalized.
Do I need to swap the rows, moving R1 to the bottom to make the diagonal non-zero. If this is the case what do I do from there
Well we know that the the eigenvalues are zero, simply because the matrix is upper triangular and the diagonals are all zero. Thus we get our eigenvalues by taking the nullspace of $A$. The matrix is diagonalizable in this case if and only if there are at least four linearly independent eigenvectors, that is $\dim(\ker(A))\ge 4$. So at this point you should look at what values of $x,y,z$ cause $A$ to have a kernel of dimension less than four, think about rank.