Let $a:\,\mathbb{R}^n\times\mathbb{R}^n\rightarrow\mathbb{R}$ be a bilinear operator (i.e. $a$ is a linear operator in each component).
Then exists a square matrix $A\in \mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$ such that for all $u,v\in\mathbb{R}^n$ it holds
$a(u,v)=v^tAu$?
where $v^t$ is the transpose of the column vector $v$.
Hint: Suppose that $e_i$ is standard basis. Then what is $a(e_i,e_j)$?