What is the maximum size of a subset S of $\{1,2,...,9\}$ such that sum of each of two members of it are distinct?
I considered the following partition: $\{1,9\},\{2,8\},\{3,7\},\{4,6\},\{5\},$ and since these subsets have equal sum I deduced that $S$ has at most 5 members,am I right?
I do not follow your deduction but 5 is right because there is a subset of size 5 such as: $\{2, 5, 7, 8, 9\}$ and, on the other hand, 6 will not work.
Proof:
EDIT: Simpler version, same approach.
New step 5. In order to get sums $3 \text { and } 17$, T must contain $1, 2, 8, 9$. But then $1+9=2+8$ so T cannot have 6 elements.
Delete steps 6 and 7.