Consider the following differential equation: $$y''(t)+\omega_0^2y(t)=\sin(\omega t).$$ If $\omega\ne\omega_0$ then $$y(t)=A\cos(\omega_0 t)+B\sin(\omega_0 t)+\frac{1}{\omega_0^2-\omega^2}\sin(\omega t).$$ If $\omega=\omega_0$ then $$y(t)=A\cos(\omega_0 t)+B\sin(\omega_0 t)-\frac{1}{2\omega_0}t\cos(\omega_0 t).$$ Shouldn't these two solutions be similar as $\omega\rightarrow\omega_0$? But if you look at the graph (attached) they don't look very similar. In this graph $A=0, B=1, \omega_0=1$ and $\omega = o = 1.01$. Image of both solutions.
The reason I think the solutions should look similar is because the above ODE describes the motion of a driven harmonic oscillator. So shouldn't driving a harmonic oscillator close to it's natural frequency give a result that is similar to driving precisely at the natural frequency? Where $\omega_0$ is the natural frequency and $\omega$ is the driving frequency.
What you will find is that if you fix the boundary conditions the solutions will converge. What you have done is fixed the coefficients, but this amounts to varying the problem.