In Silverman's "The Arithmetic of Elliptic Curves" in Cap. VII.5 (Good and Bad Reduction) a multiplicative reduction of a elliptic curve $E$ , is said to be split if the slopes of the tangent lines at the node are in $k$, and otherwise it is said to be nonsplit.
Q: what is the intuition and the origin of the usage of the word "split" in this context? what "splits"? can we associate a certain s.e.s. to this reduction, which then splits or does the notation split come from another reason?
Here's some more evidence (and slightly alternate interpretations) for my comment that slopes in $k$ is equivalent to the equation defining the node splitting as a product of linear factors in the completed local ring. I am as yet unable to find the definitive history of the term, but I hope this sheds some light on the subject for the asker and bountier:
Vakil's Rising Sea, section 29.3, "Defining types of singularities":
Stacks Project Tag 0C46, Nodal Curves:
Stacks goes on to prove that if $x\in X$ is a node, then (under mild niceness hypotheses) the completion of the local ring at $x$ is isomorphic to $k[[x,y]]/(q(x,y))$ where $q$ is a nondegenerate quadratic form. Saying that this node is split is then equivalent to $q(x,y)$ being choosable as $xy$, which is the same as saying it splits in to distinct linear factors. There's also another characterization - to each $q$, we can associate a degree-two algebra extension of the residue field at $x$, and saying that the node $x$ is split is equivalent to this algebra extension splitting as a direct product of the residue field with itself (see 0CBT + OCBU).