If $J$ is a differentiable functional and has an extremum at $y_{0}$, it must be that its differential is 0. That is, $\delta J[y_{0};h] = 0$ for all admissible $h$.
We go by contradiction. Suppose for some $h_{0}$ that $\delta J[y_{0};h_{0}] \neq 0$. By definition we have that $$\lim_{||h||\to 0} \frac{\Delta J[y_{0};h] - \delta J[y_{0};h]}{||h||} = 0 .$$ So for $\varepsilon > 0$ we have for some $0 < \eta < \varepsilon$ that if $||h||<\eta$ then $$ \delta J[y_{0};h] - \varepsilon||h|| < \Delta J[y_{0};h] < \delta J[y_{0};h] + \varepsilon||h|| .$$ Let $\alpha > 0$ be small enough so that $||\alpha h_{0}|| < \eta$. Put $g = \alpha h_{0}$. We arrive at the inequalities \begin{align} \delta J[y_{0},g] - \varepsilon||g|| &< \Delta J[y_{0},g] < \delta J[y_{0},g]+\varepsilon||g|| \\ -\delta J[y_{0},g] - \varepsilon||g|| &< \Delta J[y_{0},-g] < -\delta J[y_{0},g]+\varepsilon||g||. \end{align} We see it cannot be that $\delta J[y_{0},g] \geq \varepsilon||g||$.
I can't bring this home and I'm not sure my "translation" of their definition of differentiable is correct.
By definition we have that $$\lim_{||h||\to 0} \frac{\Delta J[y_{0};h] - \delta J[y_{0};h]}{||h||} = 0 .$$ So for $\varepsilon > 0$ we have for some $0 < \eta < \varepsilon$ that if $||h||<\eta$ then \begin{align*} \delta J[y_{0};h] - \varepsilon||h|| < \Delta J[y_{0};h] < \delta J[y_{0};h] + \varepsilon||h|| \\ -\delta J[y_{0};h] - \varepsilon||h|| < \Delta J[y_{0};-h] < -\delta J[y_{0};h] + \varepsilon||h|| \end{align*} Because $J$ is extremized at $y_{0}$, we can also make $\eta$ small enough so that $\Delta J[y_{0};h]$ is either always positive or always negative for all $||h|| < \eta$. In this case, we see it must be that $|\delta J[y_{0};h]| < \varepsilon||h||$ because otherwise $\Delta J[y_{0};h]$ and $\Delta J[y_{0};-h]$ have opposite signs. But then $$\frac{|\delta J[y_{0};h] }{||h||} < \varepsilon $$ and we see that $$\lim_{||h||\to 0}\frac{\delta J[y_{0};h]}{||h||} = 0 .$$ The following lemma shows it must be that $\delta J[y_{0};h]$ is identically 0.
Suppose for some $h_{0}$ that $\phi[h_{0}] \neq 0$. Put $$h_{n} = \frac{h_{0}}{n} \neq 0.$$ As $h_{0}$ must be bounded, we see that $\lim_{n\to\infty}||h_{n}|| = 0$ and $$\lim_{n\to \infty} \frac{\phi[h_{n}]}{||h_{n}||} = 0$$ by hypothesis. On the other hand, $$\lim_{n\to \infty} \frac{\phi[h_{n}]}{||h_{n}||} = \lim_{n\to\infty} \frac{n\phi[h_{0}]}{n||h_{0}||} = \frac{\phi[h_{0}]}{||h_{0}||} \neq 0 $$ a contradiction.