I'm trying to find out a normal, real and $\boldsymbol n\times \boldsymbol n$ ($n\ge3$) matrix $A$ which is diagonalize over $C$ but isn't diagonalize over $R$.
I know that the following matrix (a.k.a the rotating matrix) satisfies the conditions above and isn't diagonalize over $R$:
$$A=\begin{pmatrix}0&1\\-1&0\end{pmatrix}$$
But even within this example in my mind, I can't find such a matrix (satisfies the conditions above and isn't diagonalize over $R$) for $n\ge3$.
I'm almost sure there exists such a matrix. Can please someone give me an hint on how to establish such a matrix?
Hint: come up with a matrix that acts like $A$ on vectors of the form $(x,y,0)$ and does something different for $(0,0,z)$ (you can have $(0,0,z) \mapsto (0,0,z)$ or $(0,0,0)$ or whatever; you don't need to get too fancy here).
Basically, you can satisfy all the conditions by constructing an anti-symmetric (implies normal, implies diagonalizable over $\Bbb C$) matrix with at least one pair of complex eigenvalues (complex eigenvalues always come in conjugate pairs if the original entries are real; thus in odd dimensions, you are always going to have at least one real eigenvalue, but this is fine).