I'm going through Oscar Levin's discrete mathematics intro book, and one of the problems in the combinations/permutations section asks how many parallelograms can be created with two rows of seven dots in each row. (Problem 6c)
I know the answer is 91, by chunking the problem into 6 parts based on where the top-left vertex is:
$$ 91 =\\ 6+5+4+3+2+1\\ +5+5+4+3+2+1\\ +4+4+4+3+2+1\\ +3+3+3+3+2+1\\ +2+2+2+2+2+1\\ +1+1+1+1+1+1\\ =\\ 21+(21-1)+(21-3)+(21-6)+(21-10)+(21-15)\\ =\\ 7{7 \choose 2} - {8 \choose 3} $$
I understand the literal counting behind this, and seem to be able to morph the numbers into something meaningful (triangular numbers, etc.), but I cannot figure out how to comprehend the actual math behind this, or how the binomial coefficients come into play.


For quadrilaterals $^7C_2\cdot ^7C_2 = 21\cdot 21 = 441$ makes sense as every pair of dots on the bottom row can be combined with $21$ different pairs of dots on the top row. Here the binomial coefficient reflects the number of ways of choosing $2$ dots from $7$
For the parallelogram, there is a limitation that the spacing of the dots on the bottom row must match the spacing of the dots on the upper row. For this, by counting using the left upper dot location as a basis for each count, it comes out that the furthest left dot has $21$ configurations of parallelograms which is $^7C_2$, and further counting uses this as a basis and subtracts a reduction amount. So your question is, why does the first number come out to be $^7C_2$, of which we use $7$ of these as the basis of our counts, and why does the subtraction amount come out to be $^8C_3$?
Counting the number of ways to choose $2$ from $7$ happens to be an identical count to the number of ways of matching the $6$ different $2$ point pairs, each containing the upper left corner point, with identically spaced points on the lower row. That is, the descending count matches the $2$nd diagonal column of pascals triangle and hence the number $21$ on the $7$th row.
As for $^8C_3$, the subtractions correspond to the $3$rd diagonal column and hence the number $56$ on the $8$th row.
I suggest that it's only practice and proficiency that enables someone to look at this and see it as a $2$ from $7$, and even less so, a $3$ from $8$ combination count.
Having said that, maybe the method below is a simpler and more comprehensible way of counting the number of parallelograms.
In both rows of dots we have: $6$ single spacings, $5$ double spacings, $4$ triple spacings, $3$ quadruple spacings, $2$ quintuple spacings, and $1$ sextuple spacing
As we can only make parallelograms by matching like with like:
$6^2 + 5^2 + 4^2 + 3^2 + 2^2 + 1^2 = 36+25+16+9+4+1 = 91$