I have the group action of matrix multiplication, meaning:
$g((x,y))=\begin{pmatrix}a&0\\0&b\end{pmatrix}$$ \begin{pmatrix}x\\ y\end{pmatrix}$
$G=\left\{\begin{pmatrix}a&0\\0&b\end{pmatrix}:a,b\in\mathbb{R} - \{0\} \right\} g=\begin{pmatrix}a&0\\0&b\end{pmatrix}\in G$ and $X=\{(x,y):x,y\in\mathbb{R}\}$
I want to work out orbits and stabilizer.
I have only done this with permutation groups, so I have no idea how to do this:
Definition of orbit $orb((x,y))=\{g((x,y)):g\in G\}$
So I have $org((x,y))$ equalling the identity matrix?
$stab((x,y))=\{g\in G:g((x,y))=(x,y)\}$
That makes $stab((x,y))$ look like the identity though? Which am I misunderstanding?
The orbit of a vector $(x,y) \in X$ is the set of all $(a,b) \in X$ that can be "reached" by the group action. In other words, the orbit of $(x,y)$ is the set of all $(a,b)$ such that $(a,b) = g(x,y)$ for some $g\in G$.
The stabilizer of a vector $(x,y) \in X$ is the set (which turns out to be a subgroup) of all $g \in G$ such that $g(x,y) = (x,y)$.
Your problem can be naturally divided into four cases.
Case 1: $x = y = 0$.
Since $g(0,0) = (0,0)$ for every $g \in G$, the orbit of $(0,0)$ is just the singleton $\{(0,0)\}$.
The stabilizer of $(0,0)$ is the set of all $g\in G$ such that $g(0,0) = (0,0)$. Since this is true for any $g\in G$, the stabilizer of $(0,0)$ is the entire group $G$.
Case 2: $x = 0, y \neq 0$
Since $$\begin{pmatrix} a & 0 \\ 0 & b \\ \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ y \\ \end{pmatrix} = \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ by \\ \end{pmatrix}$$ and $b$ is any nonzero real number, the orbit of any vector of the form $(0,y)$ (where $y \neq 0$) is the set of all vectors of the form $(0,z)$ where $z$ is any nonzero number.
The stabilizer of such an vector $(0,y)$ is the set of all $\begin{pmatrix} a & 0 \\ 0 & b \\ \end{pmatrix}$ such that $$\begin{pmatrix} a & 0 \\ 0 & b \\ \end{pmatrix} \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ y \\ \end{pmatrix} = \begin{pmatrix} 0 \\ y \\ \end{pmatrix}$$ This forces $b=1$, but $a$ can be anything. So the stabilizer of $(0,y)$ is the set of all matrices in $G$ of the form $$\begin{pmatrix} a & 0 \\ 0 & 1 \\ \end{pmatrix}$$ You can easily check that this set is indeed a subgroup of $G$, as is any stabilizer. I'll let you work out the details of the other two cases, which are:
Case 3: $x \neq 0, y = 0$
and
Case 4: $x \neq 0, y \neq 0$
Two "sanity checks" you can use once you think you have a solution:
The orbits partition the set $X$. In other words, every element of $X$ belongs to exactly one orbit.
The stabilizer of each element of $X$ is a subgroup of $G$.
One more note: In general it's possible for different elements of $X$ to have the same stabilizer. Elements that are in the same orbit do not necessarily have the same stabilizer, and elements in different orbits can have the same stabilizer.