If $A_1, ..., A_m$ are $k$ element subsets of $\{1,2,3,...n\}$ and $B_1, ..., B_m$ are $l$ element subsets of $\{1,2,3,...n\}$ with the following properties:
For all $i \in [m]$ there are subsets such that $A_i \cap B_i = \emptyset$ and if $i, j \in [m]$ and $i \neq j$, $A_i \cap B_j \neq \emptyset$
For all $i \in [m]$, a permutation in $\mathbb{S}_n$ is considered i-orderly is permutation($a$) < permutation($b$) for all $a\in A_i$ and $b \in B_i$.
With these constraints, prove that
|{$ i \in [m] : \text{permutation is i -orderly}$}| $ \leq 1$
and
for every $i \in [m]$ find
|{$ \text{permutation in} \mathbb{S}_n : \text{permutation is i -orderly}$}|
Going through an example with $n= 3$: if $k = 2$ and $l=1$, then $A_1, ..., A_m = \{1, 2\}, \{1, 3\}, \{2, 3\}$ and $B_1, ..., B_m = \{3\}, \{2\}, \{1\}$
If we take a permutation $\alpha$ of {1, 2, 3} to be {2, 3, 1} And $i$ to be 1. Meaning: $A_1 = \{1, 2\}$ and $B_1 = \{3\}$
$\alpha(1) = 2, \alpha(2) = 3, \alpha(3) = 1$ In this iteration, $\alpha$ is not i-orderly where i = 1.
How can I prove this in a more general case? And how can I use this to compute for every $i \in [m]$ find
|{$ \text{permutation in} \mathbb{S}_n : \text{permutation is i -orderly}$}|
You illustrate one case where the permutation is not $i$-orderly, but there is another where it is, if you take $m=1$ and $A_1=\{1,2\}$ and $B_1=\{3\}$. What about $\pi([1,2,3]=[2,1,3]$? That permutation is also $i$-orderly $-$ isn't it? $-$ because every element of $\{2,1\}$ is less than every element of $\{3\}$.
Stepping back: There are ${n\choose k}$ subsets from which to choose $m$ values for the set of subsets $A$. There are ${n \choose l}$ subsets from which to choose another wholly-unrelated $m$ values for the list $B$. Clearly ${n\choose k} \ne {n \choose l}$ if $l\ne k$, so there is no natural definition of $m$. So we can take $m$ to be any number $ \le \min\{ {n\choose k} , {n\choose l}\}$, right? So, $m=1$ is an arbitrary and valid choice by your rules, isn't it? And then we can take any $m=1$ element of either set of sets to compare. Furthermore, when we permute $[n]$, we need only take two $i$ orderly permutations to invalidate the conjecture that at most 1 permutation is $i$-orderly. OK, the table is set.
Let $n=[6], ~k=3, ~l=2, ~m=[1], A_1=\{1,2,3\}, B_1\{4,5\}. A_1 \cap B_1 = \phi.$ Since $m=[1]$ there are no other cases to consider. Clearly, $a<b \text{ for every } a \in A_1, b \in B_1.$ The initial permutation $\pi_0[n]= 1,2,3,4,5,6$ is $i=1$-orderly according to your definition of $i$ for $i=1$. But so is $S_n=[1,2,3,\pi[4,5,6]].$ The cardinality of the set of i-orderly permutations is easily greater than 1.
If we try to prove a theorem and end up disproving it by finding a counter example (this time very easily) then perhaps the meanings of words aren't clear. I take
to mean that the sets $A_1=\{1,2,3\}$ corresponds to the first three elements of the null/default permutation and $B_1=\{4,5\}$ corresponds to the 4th and 5th elements of the null/default permutation of $\pi[n]$. $\pi_0[1,2,3,4,5,6] [4,5]=\{4,5\}$, but under another permutation of [1,2,3,4,5,6], viz.[1,2,3,4,6,5], $B_1 [4,5] = \pi_x[1,2,3,4,6,5][4,5]=\{4,6\}$. So this is another, valid 1-orderly permutation for the values given, and the conjecture fails.
Am I understanding you correctly?