If $\vec{a}=<1,1,0>,\vec{b}=<2,0,-1>$ then find the point of intersection of the lines $\vec{r}\times\vec{a}=\vec{b}\times\vec{a}$ and $\vec{r}\times\vec{b}=\vec{a}\times\vec{b}$
$$ \vec{a}\times(\vec{r}-\vec{b})=\vec{0}\implies\vec{a}||(\vec{r}-\vec{b})\implies\vec{r}-\vec{b}=\lambda\vec{a}\\ \vec{b}\times(\vec{r}-\vec{a})=\vec{0}\implies\vec{b}||(\vec{r}-\vec{a})\implies\vec{r}-\vec{a}=\mu\vec{b}\\ $$ But I do not have any hint of how to find the point intersection of the given lines ?
May be because I am unable to understand how can lines be defined in terms of cross products.
I'll simplify the notation.
As you say, you need $r=\lambda a+b=a+\mu b$.
It strikes me that $r=a+b$ fits the bill.