$$\int_{-\infty}^{\infty} xe^{-x^2} dx$$
I guess let $u = -x^2$ , hence $\frac{du}{dx}=-2x$
$$dx = \frac{-1}{2x}du$$ $$\int_{-\infty}^{\infty} \frac{e^{u}}{2} du$$
this is where i get lost
$$\int_{-\infty}^{\infty} xe^{-x^2} dx$$
I guess let $u = -x^2$ , hence $\frac{du}{dx}=-2x$
$$dx = \frac{-1}{2x}du$$ $$\int_{-\infty}^{\infty} \frac{e^{u}}{2} du$$
this is where i get lost
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When you have a “doubly improper” integral, you must split it into two integrals (or do a double limit). Thus $$ \int_{-\infty}^\infty xe^{-x^2}\,dx= \int_{-\infty}^a xe^{-x^2}\,dx+ \int_a^\infty xe^{-x^2}\,dx $$ where you can choose $a$ arbitrarily. In this case, a good choice is $a=0$, because in the first integral you can make the substitution $x=-t$ that produces $$ \int_{\infty}^0 te^{-t^2}\,dt+ \int_0^\infty xe^{-x^2}\,dx $$ Now, the second one is a converging integral and the first one is its opposite, so the result is zero.
Beware that simply reasoning by “the function is odd” can lead to wrong results: the function $f(x)=xe^{x^2}$ is odd, but $$ \int_{-\infty}^{\infty}xe^{x^2}\,dx $$ doesn't exist in the sense of improper integrals; there is a “principal value integral”, but it's a different matter.
Your function is odd. So when you integrate all over the real axis ($(-\infty,\infty)$) all the areas cancel each other out. Even if you don't notice that, after the substitution your limits of integration change to $\displaystyle\int_{-\infty}^{-\infty}$ and $\int_a^a f(x) \mathrm{d}x$ is always $0$.