Update my lagrangian is
$$L=\frac{ml^2}2\left(\dot \theta_1^2+\frac 13\dot \theta_2^2+\dot \theta_1\dot \theta_2\cos\delta\right)+mgl(cos\theta_1+\frac 12\cos\theta_2)$$
and for my linearised equations of motion question (5) i got the following
$$(\ddot \theta_1) +\frac{2}{3}\ddot\theta_2=\frac{-2g}{l}\theta_2$$
and $$2\ddot \theta_1 +\ddot \theta_2=\frac{-2g}{l}\theta_1$$
These seem to give numerically unpleasant normal mode frequencies though, so I'm not entirely sure that they're right, maybe i went wrong on calculating the equations of motion. a futher solution would be ideal. Thanks
my differentials were
$$\frac{dL}{d\theta_1}=-\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\cos(\theta_1)sin(\theta_2)-\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\sin(\theta_1)\cos(\theta_2)-mgl\sin(\theta_1)$$
$$\frac{dL}{d\theta_2}=-\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\cos(\theta_1)\sin(\theta_2)+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\sin(\theta_1)\cos(\theta_2)-\frac{mgl}{2}\sin(\theta_2)$$
$$\frac{dL}{d\dot\theta_1}=ml^2\dot\theta_1+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_2\cos(\theta_2-\theta_1)$$
and finally $$\frac{dL}{d\dot\theta_2}=\frac{ml^2}{3}\dot\theta_2+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\cos(\theta_2-\theta_1)$$
so the two equations of motion are
$$ml^2\ddot\theta_1+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\cos(\theta_1)sin(\theta_2)+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\sin(\theta_1)\cos(\theta_2)+mgl\sin(\theta_1)=0$$
and $$\frac{ml^2}{3}\ddot\theta_2+\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\cos(\theta_1)\sin(\theta_2)-\frac{ml^2}{2}\dot\theta_1\dot\theta_2\sin(\theta_1)\cos(\theta_2)+\frac{mgl}{2}\sin(\theta_2)=0$$
