Question: For all $a, b, c \in \mathbb{Z}$, if $a\mid bc$, then $a\mid b$ or $a\mid c$. Is this true?
My answer: True. (Proof by contrapositive) Proof that if $a \nmid b$ and $a \nmid c$, then $a \nmid bc$.
Suppose $b = ax+r$ and $c = ay+s$, where $x,y,r,s \in \mathbb{Z}$ and $x,y,r,s \neq 0$
Then multiply $b$ by $c$:
$bc = (ax+r)(ay+s)=a(ayz+sy+rz) + rs$
$bc = az + t$, where $z = ayz+sy+rz$ and $t = rs$
Because $a,r,s,y,z$ are all integers $\mathbb{Z}$that are non-zero, both $z$ and $t$ are integers that is not zero.
Therefore, $bc$ is not divisible by $a$ because of the reminder $t$. This completes the proof.
Actual answer: False (Disproof by example) Consider $a=6, b=3, c=4$, $a\mid bc$, but $a \nmid b$ or $a \nmid c$.
My question: What is wrong with my proof?
The first actual error (as opposed to first imprecise statement) in your proof is:
Presumably you meant:
$bc = (ax+r)(ay+s)=a(axy+sx+yr) + rs$
$bc = az + t$, where $z = axy+sx+yr$ and $t = rs$
And even then the next statement is wrong:
Let $a=5,x=1,y=1,s=5,r=-10$. Then $z = axy+sx+yr = 5(1)(1)+5(1)+1(-10) = 0$
Presumably when you wrote
you somehow meant to say that $r$ and $s$ weren't multiples of $a$. At this point, there are so many problems with your argument that I'm giving up :-).
As per crostul's comment, try writing your proof out substituting $a=6,b=2,c=3$.