Let $A = \mathbb{N} \times \mathbb{N} $, and let $R$ be an equivalence relation on $A$ such that:
$$R = \left\{\big((m,n),(h,k)\big) \in A \times A \mid m + k = n + h\right\}.$$
Prove that each equivalence class of $R$ contains exactly one element $(m,n)$ such that at least one of $m$ or $n$ is $0$.
HINTS: For $d\in\Bbb Z$ let $C_d=\{\langle m,n\rangle\in A:m-n=d\}$.
To show that each $C_d$ contains exactly one element $\langle m,n\rangle$ such that at least one of $m$ and $n$ is $0$, you must do two things:
You can do (1) by simply exhibiting an specific element of $C_d$ that has at least one $0$ component: there is one that has a very simple description in terms of $d$. You can do (2) by assuming that $\langle m,n\rangle$ and $\langle h,k\rangle$ are such elements and using the fact that they are both in $C_d$ to show that they must in fact be equal.