The title basically says everything. The formula for linear approximation appears to be right intuitively but is there a proof for it?
Secondly, is there also a proof why to put the $\frac{1}{2}$ in front of the second derivative in the quadratic approximation? $$Q_{a}(x)=f(a)+f'(a)(x-a)+\frac{f''(a)(x-a)^2}{2}$$
Since by definition $$\lim_{x\to a} \frac{f(x) - f(a)}{x - a} = f'(a),$$ we have $$f(x) = f(a) + (x - a)f'(a) + o(x - a)$$ as $x \to a$. Any other approximation $f(x) = f(a) + C(x - a)$ with $C\not = f'(a)$ would behave like $(C - f'(a))(x - a)$ (which is not $o(x - a)$) near $a$. Alternatively, look at the Taylor series of $f$ at $a$, assuming $f$ has one.
For the second part: Without going through the derivation of the Taylor series, the easiest way to show that the coefficient should be $\frac{1}{2}$ and not $1$ is to take $f(x) = (x - a)^2$.