Given a homogeneous binary relation $\mathcal R$ over a set $A$, $\mathcal{R}$ is reflexive if:
$$\forall a \in A:(a,a) \in \mathcal R$$ Prove a relation $\mathcal R$ is reflexive if and only if its complement $\overline{\mathcal R}$ is irreflexive (strict).
$\Longrightarrow$
By the definition of complement relation:
$$\forall a,b \in A :(a,b) \in \mathcal R \implies (a,b) \notin \overline{\mathcal R}$$
Taking $a=b$ follows:
$$\forall a \in A :(a,a) \in \mathcal R \implies (a,a) \notin \overline{\mathcal R}$$
Which is true since $\mathcal R$ is reflexive.
$\Longleftarrow$
By the definition of complement relation:
$$\forall a,b \in A :(a,b) \in \overline{\mathcal R} \implies (a,b) \notin \mathcal R$$
Taking $a=b$ follows:
$$\forall a \in A :(a,a) \in \overline{\mathcal R} \implies (a,a) \notin \mathcal R$$
Since $ \overline{\mathcal R}$ is irreflexive, hence $\forall a \in A :(a,a) \in \overline{\mathcal R}$ is never true, and hence its negation is always true for all $a \in A$, however I still cannot finish the proof.
Another way is using contradiction argument, assume $\overline{\mathcal R}$ is irreflexive, but $\mathcal R$ is not reflexive, i.g.: $$\forall a \in A :(a,a) \notin \overline{\mathcal R}$$
And $$\exists a \in A :(a,a) \notin \mathcal R$$
From here we see that exists such $a \in A$ satisfying the two conditions $(a,a) \notin \overline{\mathcal R}$ and $(a,a) \notin \mathcal R$, but do we end up with a contradiction?
Can someone help me finishing this proof?
The $\implies$ part of the proof is fine.
Now for the $\Longleftarrow$ part:
Use proof by contraction. Suppose $\overline{\mathcal R}$ is irreflexive and $R$ is not reflexive. By definition of complement, we know that $\mathcal{R} \cup \overline{\mathcal R} = A \times A$. Let $a \in A$, such that $(a,a) \notin \overline{\mathcal R}$ (since $\overline{\mathcal R}$ is irreflexive) and $(a,a) \notin \mathcal{R}$ (since $\mathcal{R}$ is not reflexive, then such ordered pair in this conditions must exists). From here we deduce that $(a,a) \notin A \times A$, which is a contradiction. $\square$