I'm not sure if this is true, as it is something I am inferring from a proof that I am trying to understand.
I know that $\|A\|=\max\{-\lambda_{\min}(A),\lambda_\max(A)\}$ for $A$ symmetric. However I don't know how to prove the statement in the title.
If $A$ is symmetric it’s diagonalizable and has an orthonormal basis $v_i$ with eigenvalues $\lambda_i$.
Then write $x=\sum_i (x,v_i)v_i$, so that:
$$|x^TAx|=|\sum_{i=1} (x,v_i)^2\lambda_i|\leq |\lambda_M| \|x\|^2,$$
Can you finish from here?