Let $u_1=\begin{pmatrix}1\\ 2\\ 3\end{pmatrix}$, $u_2=\begin{pmatrix}2\\ 3\\ 4\end{pmatrix}$, $v_1=\begin{pmatrix}1\\ 1\\ 2\end{pmatrix}$, $v_2=\begin{pmatrix}2\\ 2\\ 3\end{pmatrix}$.
Let $U=span(\vec{u_1},\vec{u_2})$ and $V=span(\vec{v_1},\vec{v_2})$.
I've already shown that $(\vec{u_1}|\vec{u_2})$ and $(\vec{v_1}|\vec{v_2})$ are equivalent to $\begin{pmatrix}1 & 0\\ 0 & 1\\ 0 & 0\\ \end{pmatrix}$ and therefore that $U$ and $V$ are vector spaces of dimension 2.
Now I want to prove the following, but I could use some help (or at least some guidance on where to start):
That any element in $V$ is of the form $\vec{v}=\begin{pmatrix}\alpha + 2\beta\\ \alpha + 2\beta\\ 2\alpha + 3\beta\end{pmatrix}$ where $\alpha$ and $\beta$ are real numbers.
That the following system only has solutions if $\alpha+\beta=0$:
$\begin{pmatrix}1 & 2\\ 2 & 3\\ 3 & 4\end{pmatrix}\vec{x}=\begin{pmatrix}\alpha + 2\beta\\ \alpha + 2\beta\\ 2\alpha + 3\beta\end{pmatrix}$
That $\begin{pmatrix}\alpha + 2\beta\\ \alpha + 2\beta\\ 2\alpha + 3\beta\end{pmatrix}=\beta\begin{pmatrix}1\\ 1\\ 1\end{pmatrix}$ when $\alpha+\beta=0$.
That $U\cap V=span(\vec{v})$, where $\vec{v}=\begin{pmatrix}1 \\ 1\\ 1\\ \end{pmatrix}$.
1) Since $V=span(\vec v_1,\vec v_2)$, there is nothing to prove, because by definition $$ span(\vec v_1,\vec v_2)=\left\{\alpha\vec v_1+\beta\vec v_2~:~\alpha,\beta\in\mathbb R\right\}=\left\{\begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix}~:~\alpha,\beta\in\mathbb R\right\}. $$
2) Write $$ \begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix} =(\alpha+\beta)\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\2\end{pmatrix}+\beta\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\1\end{pmatrix} $$ and prove(!) $\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\1\end{pmatrix}\in U$ and $\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\2\end{pmatrix}\notin U$.
Not let us show: $\alpha+\beta=0\Rightarrow \begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix}\in U$.
Let be $\alpha+\beta=0$, then $$ \begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix} =\beta\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\1\end{pmatrix}\in U, $$ because ... .
Next, we show: $\alpha+\beta\neq 0\Rightarrow \begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix}\notin U$.
Assume $\alpha+\beta\neq 0$ and $\begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix}\in U$. Then $$ (\alpha+\beta)\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\2\end{pmatrix}=\begin{pmatrix}\alpha+2\beta\\\alpha+2\beta\\2\alpha+3\beta\end{pmatrix}-\beta\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\1\end{pmatrix}. $$ The LHS is not in $U$ while the RHS ... .
3) Use the form from 2)
4) Combine the results 1)+2)+3).