Given an $A \in \mathcal M_n$ matrix which is strictly diagonally dominant, meaning that $$|a_{ii}| > \sum_{j=1 j \neq i}^n |a_{ij}|$$ Prove that it admits a decomposition $A=M-N$ such that $m_{ii} = a_{ii}$ and $|m_{ii}| > \displaystyle\sum_{j=1 j \neq i} (|m_{ij}| + |n_{ij}|)$. Moreover, it verifies that if $i \neq j$ and $a_{ij} \neq 0$, then $m_{ij},n_{ij} \neq 0$
My attempt
In order to prove this result, first of all I can easily define $m_{ii} = a_{ii}$, and now check the second condition is verified. $$|m_{ii}| = |a_{ii}| > \sum_{j=1 j \neq i}^n |a_{ij}| = \sum_{j=1 j \neq i}^n |m_{ij} - n_{ij}|$$ Using triangular inequality: $$|m_{ii}| > \sum_{j=1 j \neq i}^n |m_{ij} - n_{ij}| \geq \sum_{j=1 j \neq i}^n |m_{ij}| - |n_{ij}|$$ This is where I get stuck since I seem to get just the opositte operation of what it is asked. I think I may be going in the wrong direction, but I can't think of other way to solve the problem. Any help is truly appreciated.
If the last condition didn't exist, you could simply set $N = 0$ and $M = A$. So the idea is to start with this and add a little perturbation on $N$. Take $\varepsilon \in \mathbb{C}^*$ small (or $\mathbb{R}^*$ if you have real matrices, you didn't specify it) and consider $n_{ij} = \varepsilon$ if $i \neq j$, $0$ else and $M = A + N$.
As $\varepsilon \neq 0$, the last condition is fulfilled and the fact that $N$ has a null diagonal implies that for all $i$, $m_{ii} = a_{ii}$. All what we have left to check is the inequalities. Let $1 \leqslant i \leqslant n$. \begin{align*} |m_{ii}| - \sum_{j \neq i} (|m_{ij}| + |n_{ij}|) & = |a_{ii}| - \sum_{j \neq i} (|a_{ij} + \varepsilon| + |\varepsilon|)\\ & \geqslant |a_{ii}| - \sum_{j \neq i} (|a_{ij}| + 2|\varepsilon|)\\ & = |a_{ii}| - \sum_{j \neq i} |a_{ij}| + (2n - 2)|\varepsilon|. \end{align*} Choose $\displaystyle |\varepsilon| < \frac{1}{2n - 2}\min_{1 \leqslant i \leqslant n}\left\{|a_{ii}| - \sum_{j \neq i} |a_{ij}|\right\}$ and your problem is solved.