Exercise comes from Bowers' "Actuarial Mathematics". I'm self-studying and have virtually no clue how to approach it. We make no assumptions about either utility function or distribution of $X$.
Let $w$ - wealth level, $G$ - premium, $X$ - random loss, $u$ - utility function of individual. We know that: $$u(w-G)=E(u(w-X))$$ $$E(X)=\mu$$ Use the approximations:
$$u(w-G)\approx u(w-\mu)+(u-G)\mu'(w-\mu)$$
$$u(w-x)\approx u(w-\mu)+(u-x)\mu'(w-\mu)+\frac{1}{2}(\mu-x)^2\mu''(w-\mu)$$
and derive the following approximation for G:
$$G \approx \mu - \frac{1\mu''(w-\mu)}{2\mu'(w-\mu)}\sigma^2 $$
HINT: In the topmost equation $u(w-G)=E(u(w-X))$, replace the LHS with the first approximation. For the RHS of the topmost equation, calculate $E(u(w-X))$ using the second approximation (details below):
I think we can assume that $E(X-\mu)^2=\sigma^2$.
Now solve for $G$.
Note that your notation is messed up. In some of your equations you have written $\mu$ instead of $u$, and vice versa.