1.

order-presserving = monotonic
But we haven't define order structure on the ring.
2.

I try to prove x is a unit <=> (x)=A ,and fail.
That's what I think:
=>
we want to prove (x)=A.
(x)=A mean Ax=A, so we need to prove f:a->ax is bijective
bijective=injective+surjective
surjective: For every ax,there exist a such that f(a)=ax
injective: failed
presume I succeed in proving it
then |A|=|Ax|
hence A=Ax
<=
I have no idel to prove it.
:(
I suppose we talk about commutative rings.
The order is on the set of ideals of the ring (by inclusion) and not on the ring itself.
Very good thoughts. Well, actually, in this context $Ax$ denotes the set $\{ax\,\mid\,a\in A\}$, and once you showed surjectivity of $a\mapsto ax$, you are done, as it already proves that this set $Ax$ contains all elements of $A$ (and of course, it cannot contain more).
However, if $x$ is a unit, it means it has a multiplicative inverse $x^{-1}$, and then $a\mapsto ax^{-1}$ is inverse of $a\mapsto ax$, so it is also injective: $$ax=bx \ \implies a=axx^{-1}=bxx^{-1}=b\,.$$
For the other direction, assume that $Ax=A=(1)$, in particular $1\in Ax$, i.e. $1=ax$ for some $x$, that is, $x\,|\,1$, $\ x\,$ is a unit.