My first question is:
Let $\phi: V \rightarrow \mathbb{R}$ a quadratic form. We say that a vector $x$ is autoconjugate if its conjugate with its self, that is, $\phi(x)=0$. Does the set of all autoconjugate vectors form a subspace of V? (My guess: The set of all those vectors would be :$$S= \{x \in V | \phi(x) = 0\}$$ which is extremely similar to the Ker of something. That is where my problem lies, does a quadratic form have such a thing like a Ker? Is it equal to the Ker of the bilinear form or does a bilinear form have a Ker?
My second question is:
How do bilinear and quadratic forms look like (I mean visually)?
You can define that subset like you just did, but in general it'll only be a cone (that is, $\lambda x \in S$ for any scalar $\lambda$ and $x \in S$).
For example, take the quadratic form $\phi(x,y) = x^2 - y^2$ on $\mathbb{R}^2$. Then $$ S = \{ (x,y) \mid x = y \text{ or } x = -y \}. $$ This is the union of two lines, but is not a linear subspace of $\mathbb{R}^2$.