Are these two definitions of a reflection matrix Q equivalent (if and only if)?
Definition 1: $Q^TQ = I$ and $det(Q) = -1$
Definition 2: $Q = I-2nn^T$ where $n$ is a unit normal vector to the plane that reflects vectors.
It’s easy to show that definition 2 implies 1 (I’ve already done this - so please do not prove this part). But proving that definition 1 implies 2 seems much more difficult.
The result is wrong for real vector spaces with dimension $n>2$
The orthogonal transformation
$$Q= \begin{pmatrix} \dfrac{\sqrt{2}}{2} & -\dfrac{\sqrt{2}}{2} & 0\\ \dfrac{\sqrt{2}}{2} & \dfrac{\sqrt{2}}{2} & 0\\ 0 & 0 &-1 \end{pmatrix}$$
is such that $\det Q= - 1$. However, $Q$ is the not the matrix of a reflection ($Q$ has no fixed vector).