From Munkres, Section #3: Relations:
Define two points $(x_0, y_0)$ and $(x_1, y_1)$ of the plane to be equivalent if $y_0 - x_0^2$ = $y_1 - x_1^2$. Check that this is an equivalence relation and describe the equivalence classes.
I reckon if I can show this relation satisfies the reflexive, symmetric, and transitive properties then I will have solved the problem. But how do I apply the reflexive property to this problem?
This is what I understand:
-A relation on a set $A$ is a subset $C$ of the cartesian product $A \times A$.
-A relation $xCy$ is read as $(x, y) \in C$
-A relation is reflexive if $xCx$ for every $x$ in A.
Now I can think of the plane that the two points are in as the cartesian product $\Bbb{R} \times \Bbb{R}$. So I will have shown that the relation is reflexive if I can show $xCx$ for every $x$ in $\Bbb{R}$.
But how do I show this? Doesn't $xCx$ imply that $(x,x) \in C$? How does this $x$ relate to $(x_0, y_0)$ and $(x_1, y_1)$ in the stated problem? I don't think we are saying that all points where the $x$ and $y$ coordinates are equal are equivalent? I get that $y_0 = x_0^2$ is a parabola, and that we are describing parabolas in some way, but somehow it still seems unclear. Suppose the problem had said our points were equivalent if $y_0 - x_0^2$ = $2y_1 - x_1^2$. What would change?
For your given relation, obviously we have $y_0-x_0^2=y_0-x_0^2$ and therefore it is reflexive.
(Any two points $P_1$ and $P_2$ on the plane are equivalent if they are on the same parabola $y=x^2+k$ for some $k.$)
On the other hand, if you had something like $(x_0,y_o)\sim(x_1,y_1)$ if $y_0 - x_0^2=2y_1- x_1^2,$ the relation is reflexive for all the point such that $\{(x,0) : x\in\Bbb{R}\}.$