Explain why the relation $$T=\{(a,b)\in\mathbb{R}\times\mathbb{R}:a≤b\}$$ is reflexive, but the relation $$ Q=\{(a,b)\in \mathbb{R}\times\mathbb{R}:a<b\}$$ is not reflexive.
Is $T$ reflexive because $a$ can equal $b$? While in $Q$, $a$ can only be smaller than $b$ and not equal to be reflexive as in $T$.
You've got it precisely right. We know that an equivalence relation $\sim$ on a set $X$ is reflexive if $x \in X$ satisfies $x\sim x$. Is it possible for a real number $x$ to satisfy $x<x?$ No. However, any real number can (and does) satisfy $x\le x$. So, $"\le"$ is a reflexive relation on $\mathbb{R}$, while $"<"$ is not.