I'm having trouble with the following problem:
Let V be a vector space of finite dimension and F a non-degenerate symmetric bilinear form on V. Show that if $T \in L(V,V)$, then there exists $T$* $\in L(V,V)$ such that $F(T(u), v)= F(u, T^{*}(v))$ $\forall u,v \in V$.
I know that because F is symmetric I will be able to pass something in the first argument to the second, however, I'm having trouble thinking which could be the $T$* that works. In my course we had been using $T$* as the transpose conjugate, but I think here it isn't the case that one works. Also, I can´t figure out where to use the hypothesis F is non-degenerate.
Thanks in advance for your help.
Let $V^\prime$ be the dual space of $V$.
Since $F$ is non degenerate it is true that the map \begin{align*} J : V &\longrightarrow V^\prime \\ v &\longmapsto ( w \mapsto F(v,w)) \end{align*} is a linear isomorphism.
Let $T^\prime$ be the algebraic adjoint of $T$, defined by: \begin{align*} T^\prime : V^\prime &\longrightarrow V^\prime \\ v^\prime &\longmapsto \big(w \mapsto v^\prime (T(w)) \big). \end{align*} $T^\prime$ is a well defined linear map.
Now consider the following diagram $$ \require{AMScd} \begin{CD} V @. @. V @>J>> V^\prime \\ @VTVV @. @AT^* AA @AAT^\prime A \\ V @. @. V @>J>> V^\prime , \end{CD} $$ Since $J$ is an isomorphism there is a unique linear map $T^*$ that makes the above diagram commute. For the diagram to commute it is necessary (and sufficient) that $$T^* = J^{-1} T^\prime J.$$
For any $v,w \in V$ we have by definition: \begin{equation} \big(J(T^*(v))\big)(w) = F (T^*(v) ,w ) \end{equation} and \begin{equation} \big(T^\prime( J (v)) \big)(w)= F(v,T(w)). \end{equation} Now since the diagram commutes: \begin{equation} F(v,T(w)) = \big(T^\prime( J (v)) \big)(w) = (J(T^*(v))(w) = F (T^*(v) ,w ) . \end{equation} Which is the desired Identity (after using the symmetry of $F$). Notice that we have not only shown existence, but uniqueness as well.