$x^2 -xy + y^2 \equiv 0 \pmod{43}$
We could transform this into
$\frac{x^3 + y^3}{x+y} \equiv 0 \pmod{43}$
and thus
$x^3 + y^3 \equiv 0 \pmod{43}$
From what I could manage so far, I know that if $x = 3k$ , $y= 3k+1$, as $43 = 3k+1$.
Also there are no solutions for $43$ itself, $84$ and $127$.
How should I proceed?
We have $x \equiv -y$ iff $x \equiv 0$ iff $y \equiv 0$.
Otherwise, as you have argued, $x^2 - xy + y^2 \equiv 0$ iff $x^3 + y^3 \equiv 0$ and this happens iff $(xy^{-1})^3 \equiv -1$.
So the solutions are $x=yu$, where $u$ is an element of order $6$ mod $43$, that is, $u=7$ or $u=37$.