I tried:
$$\lim_{x \rightarrow 0} \frac{e^x+e^{-x}-2}{x^2+2x} = \\ \frac{e^{x}(1+e^{-2x}-\frac{2}{e^x})}{x(x-2)} = \frac{e^x(1+e^{-2x})-2}{x(x-2)} = \frac{e^x(1+e^{-2x})}{x(x-2)} - \frac{2}{x(x-2)} = \\ \frac{1+e^{-2x}}{x} \cdot \frac{e^x}{x-2} - \frac{2}{x(x-2)} = ???$$
What do I do next?
The path you took leads nowhere, because you get a $\infty-\infty$ form. (By the way, $x^2+2x=x(x+2)$, not $x(x-2)$, but it's a detail.)
Use the fact that $$ e^x+e^{-x}-2=e^{-x}(e^x-1)^2 $$ so your limit can be written as $$ \lim_{x\to0}\frac{e^{-x}}{x+2}\frac{e^x-1}{x}(e^x-1) $$
Of course, l’Hôpital in this case is much easier: