When testing for normality of a group apart from using the method of using generating sets E.G. If A is a generating set for G and B is a generating set for H then we must check if $bab^{-1}, b^{-1}ab$, (which cuts the work down a little but is still quite tediuous. ).
Is there some quick ways to decide for or against normality . I know a few , for instance in a nilpotent group the maximal subgroups are always normal, or groups of index two are always normal. I also know that in general this is quite an intractable question but I was hoping someone might know of some quick ways to decide normality that I'm unaware of. Particularly in deciding if a group is not normal as I know no tricks at all for deciding that.
If a subgroup is normal then it must be a (disjoint) union of $G$-conjugacy classes (the converse is not true). So if conjugacy classes are known (not hard to find them), then you can check against them.