The heat equation $u_t=u_{xx}$ in $\Omega = (0,T] \times(0,1)$, $u(0,x) = u_0(x)$, $u(t,0)=g_1(t)$, $u(t,1)=g_2(t)$ can be discretized by the schemes:
$$\frac{u_i^{n+1}-u_i^n}{\Delta t} = \theta\frac{u_{i-1}^{n+1}-2u_i^{n+1}+u_{i+1}^{n+1}}{\Delta x^2} + (1-\theta)\frac{u_{i-1}^n-2u_i^n+u_{i+1}^n}{\Delta x^2}$$
where $u_i^0=u_0(x_i), u_0^n=g_1(t_ n), u_N^n=g_2(t_n)$, for $\theta \in [0,1]$.
How can we show that the order of consistency is $O(\Delta t + \Delta x^2)$ for $\theta \neq \frac{1}{2}$ and $O(\Delta t^2 + \Delta x^2)$ for $\Theta = \frac{1}{2}$ ? For which $\theta$ is the scheme stable?
Here are some pointers on what you need to do.
Let's call $u_i^n = u(x,t)$. Then
$$u_{i+i'}^{n+n'} = u(x+i'\Delta x,t + n'\Delta t)$$
where $\Delta x,\Delta t$ is the grid-spacing (for example $u_{i+1}^n$ corresponds to $i'=1$ and $n'=0$). We can Taylor expand $u(x+i'\Delta x,t + n'\Delta t)$ (see this for formulas) $$u(x+i'\Delta x,t + n'\Delta t) = u(x,t) + (i'\Delta x) u_x(x,t) + (n'\Delta t) u_t(x,t) + \frac{1}{2}[u_{xx}(x,t)(i'\Delta x)^2+2u_{xy}(x,t)(i'\Delta x)(n'\Delta t)+u_{tt}(x,t)(n'\Delta t)^2] + \ldots$$
and so on to as high order as you need. Now start with your discretized PDE and insert the Taylor expansion for each of the terms and simplify. You will end up with $u_{t}(x,t) = u_{xx}(x,t) + $error-terms where the error terms will tell you the order of accuracy.
As an example we have the left hand side is given by:
$$\frac{u_i^{n+1} - u_i^n}{\Delta t} = \frac{[u + u_t\Delta t + \frac{1}{2}u_{tt}\Delta t^2] - [u]}{\Delta t} = u_t + \frac{u_{tt}}{2}\Delta t$$ which means this expression is accurate to $\mathcal{O}(\Delta t)$.
As for stability see Von Neumann stability analysis. The example given on that page is for the heat equation with the discretization corresponding to $\theta = 0$. Should be straight forward to modify this analysis to your general case.