Here is what I have so far:
Proof $3\mid b_n$ for $n$ integers $\geq 1$
Base Cases both given $b_1=3, b_2=9$ and $b_n=6b_{n-2}+b_{n-1}$
$$P(1)=3\mid b_1$$
$$P(1)= 3\mid 3$$
Since $3\mid 3$, the base case is true for $n = 1$.
$$P(2)=3\mid b_2$$
$$P(2)= 3\mid 9$$
Since $3\mid 9$, the base case is true for $n = 2$
We assume that $P(i)$ is true for some integer $i$ $P(i)= 3\mid b_i=3\mid 6b_{i-2}+b_{i-1}$
We will now prove that $P(i+1)$ is true
WTS: $3\mid b_{i+1}=3\mid 6b_{i-1}+b_i$
$$3\mid b_{i+1}= 3\mid 6b_{(i+1)-2}+b_{(i+1)-1}$$
$$3\mid b_{i+1}= 3\mid 6b_{(i-1)}+b_{(i)}$$
$$3\mid b_{i+1}= 3\mid 6b_{(i-1) }+(6b_{i-2}+b_{i-1})$$
How is it even possible to prove this?
We want to show that $3\mid b_i$ for all $i$. We have $b_1=1$, $b_2=9$, and $b_n=6b_{n-2}+b_{n-1}$ for all $n \ge 3$.
We are told to use strong induction, so we write it up in that style. However, ordinary induction works just as quickly.
For the strong induction step, we need to show that if $3\mid b_k$ for all $k\lt n$, then $3\mid b_n$.
We use the recurrence $b_n=6b_{n-2}+b_{n-1}$. Since $n-1\lt n$, we have by the induction hypothesis that $3\mid b_{n-1}$.
It is clear that $3\mid 6b_{n-2}$: we don't even need any information about $b_{n-2}$ to see that.
It follows that $3\mid (6b_{n-2}+b_{n-1})$ (if $3\mid x$ and $3\mid y$ then $3\mid (x+y)$, and we are finished.
Remarks: $1.$ If our recurrence had been $b_n=5b_{n-2}+b_{n-1}$, with the same initial conditions $b_1=3$, $b_2=9$, we could use a similar argument to deduce that $3\mid b_n$ for all $n$. But in the induction step, we would have to use the fact that since $n-2\lt n$ and $n-1\lt n$, we have $3\mid b_{n-2}$ and $3\mid b_{n-1}$.
$2.$ It is important to see that there is nothing much going on here. The number $3$ divides $b_1$ and $b_2$. But because $b_3=6b_1+b_2$, it follows that $3$ divides $b_3$. Then because $b_4=6b_2+b_3$, it follows that $3$ divides $b_4$. And so on forever.